Things Couple Must Do Before Getting Married

Faisal Rafiq 0
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Love is in the air- but sharing these experiences before you say ‘yes’ will make married life that much sweeter.

Once the couple decided to get married, it could feel like one, swift free-fall toward the big day. It is easy to be caught up in wedding planning and let every single interaction with your other half revolve around wedding decisions and discussions. But whenever your wedding is divorced marriage it is important to take this time not only to prepare for a beautiful wedding but also to get ready for a lasting and happy marriage. To strengthen and deepen your bond- and make the transaction into married life even breezier and smooth,

10 things that are essential and recommended for couples to do before marriage.

Go for a short trip:

traveling together allows you to see how both of you handle different situations that are valuable for future life. Even if you have mastered the art of the couple’s getaway already, this is a good time to consider a pre-honeymoon. So, if you have not skipped to outstation yet, book your ticket! You may also enjoy a road trip, camping, domestic weekend getaways- these are some great ways for a couple to share experiences outside the usual routine, making new memories, and allows talking on different issues.

Understand the value of your partner:

long before making the commitments to spend the rest of your lives together, it is important to talk and do discussions over beliefs, religion, family rituals, and dynamics, etc. If you find yourself on the opposite end, do not worry it could still work, but it might take some effort to understand each other and point of view.

Do talk about money matters:

finances are the major issues of misunderstanding- so try to clear as much as possible before the wedding. Indian wedding needs huge money whether it is Hindu wedding, Punjabi marriage or any other culture, ways to spend may differ but Indian people do spend a lot in their marriages, so never forget to talk about these expenses.

Kids-essential part of life:

some couples think this could be discussed later but it is one of the major factors of divorces, one has to be clear about having and not having kids, and up till when they need time. In the case of second marriages any partner having kids, their needs and future must be planned prior.

Spend some quality time together:

living together is not a concept of arranged marriages in Indian society, but spending time is a great option to know each other well, it also develops care, love, and emotions between the couple.

Meet each other best friends:

although it is their inner circle of friends and extended family, knowing them better would help to know your partner better. Building a strong relationship with your significant other close family and near ones will also deepen the bond between you two. 

Meet each other’s favorite people

If you are about to get married and whether it is a love marriage or arrange marriage it is necessary to meet each other’s favorite people or person individually. It can be friends, family members, or relatives as well. In this way one can know each other’s favorite people more deeply and make a good Bond and connection with them as well

Share what you need from your partner

In addition, if it is an arranged marriage then you will have to share what is your needs and Desire from the opposite partner. Moreover, it will be better to have a clear conversation and talk to the other person clearly about what exactly you want from the marriage and from the person you are getting married to as well.

Get to know their past

The more we will know your partner it will be easier for you to know them better as well. Each of the single things about your partner will make your marriage a happy marriage. Hence try to find out every single thing including their pasts as well.

Take engagement photos

Before getting married the couples should do the engagement ceremony as well with the close family members and relatives. You can even take pictures of your engagement ceremony as well and keep them as a memory with you as well.

re getting married the couples should do the engagement ceremony as well with the close family members and relatives. You can even take pictures of your engagement ceremony as well and keep them as a memory with you as well.